I am Justincredible and you will have fun in my sessions. For more details:
The first time I ran a game was when I was 8, after reading through a scenario for 2nd ed dnd. I feel like it’s very important for the ref to know the rules, so that the ref knows when the rules should be broken. If something is awesome, or really makes sense in the context of the story, I’ll usually override the rules and say yes, with the caveat that this is not precedent setting.
I rely heavily on combat, story, npc interaction, and imagery. Everyone should have a chance to feel like a bad ass.